Once broken with my knowledge, whether it is a utensil, a piece of paper torn, a chamber of secrets lost or a friendship broken; i prefer to let it go nor try to fix it up….
Brought up in a family that pampered me all the time (till i was grown up), i always preferred to show off my goody self rather than my bad. Known to be a good girl and with all the pleasures of life thrown to me from a young age i preferred never to destroy anything and was accepted in the family as a child “who was careful with her things, disciplined, studious, ‘left things with her, nothing to worry about’ “. So as such acknowledged by my parents and my only sister, i was very careful in handling my things, my finances, my friends and everything what i was accustomed to in my daily life.
Whatever be the circumstance i always enjoyed the situation and handled it to my satisfaction, all the while making sure that it doesn’t effect me, though it effects others but never to destroy it completely unless i wish to do so. And as the word goes, ‘A change is as good as the rest‘, i always prefer to stop anything come my way when i feel that there is a need to destroy it.
And that is how i like to break everything and i have done it so far..My decisions are not taken in just a mere second…it takes real time for me to decide- what i have to do, should i bear with it, take advice from others and when i find all is well, i go for the perfect break up!!
So listen don’t mess up with me, i will break it when least expected!! ha ha
Posted by Lexi on March 24, 2010 at 5:16 am
ahhaa… I think you really got hurt by something. Anyway its good that you thinks a lot before you break up a relation… but breakup is not a solution is it!! we can just keep tht person in a distance. I think we have to accept a person as what they are allee… rather being expecting a change in them according to our comfortable level. But good post dee … keep writing
Posted by Neetu on March 24, 2010 at 6:07 am
Caro dear.. have u heard of this saying …
” Relationships are like glass.. Once they are broken, it is better to leave them that way, rather than try to fix it and hurt urself”…
I was discussing this with my friend.. and do u know how wat she replied…
“Relationships are like steel tumblers… as time goes by, there will be many dents.. but they will still be around”….
And I tend to agree with what she said… It is never broken,, it is always there… but it is upto whether u wanna throw that steel tumbler away or keep it close…. hope u take a wise decision..